A Memorial To Big Daddy
I had to take an unfortunate hiatus from writing for the last few months due to the recent loss of my father. Bruce Stern, better known as “Big Daddy” to most of us, was a great dad and friend. He was truly one of a kind and always lead the charge when it came to fun.
BD knew how to enjoy life and loved to capture the journey along the way in photographs. He also left many recordings that will live on to define his passion for images, music ,and communicating with others.
If he could help it, BD never missed a sunset and enjoyed taking pictures of natural wonders. He taught me how to see and look at things closer through the lens of a camera. After sorting through thousands of photos he took, I came to realize that his archives represented a deep need to celebrate each moment as if it might be the last. He passed this urge on to me and I’ve spent my life trying to look closer and capture the world from my own unique perspective. Here is a shot I took of him looking into a mirrored glass sphere I made and then another one he took of me the same day.
Notice the reflection of the sun on my tripod (which I’m sure he adjusted) to capture this special moment in time. It shows the magic that is available to all of us if we take the time to look and snap the shutter.
Ty has known my dad for many years, but had the fortune of spending time with him last summer at the beach. As most of you know, Ty also has an addiction to photography, and we all enjoyed sharing our love for the documented image and the way it inspired other ideas for our art making processes.
My point in sharing all of this is to inspire you to make an extra effort and appreciate your ability to stop time with a photo, but I also want to encourage you to share your pictures with others. I really have found a deeper appreciation for how important a life’s record can be now that Big Daddy has moved on, and I am so thankful that my dad influenced many of us to take a closer look. Pictures are indeed worth a thousand words…
We will miss you Big Daddy. You have inspired us to no end and your legacy lives on. RIP.
All photos courtesy of Rob and Bruce Stern